Use & Throw...

i have often wondered whether people we meet will remaining being friends or just move on once there is no mutual benefit. Sorry for sounding so insolent and utterly rude but sometimes i just get the feeling...i just wish i am wrong...how often have u realised that d people who u call friends r just there because they can benefit and u don't seem to get their act?...it has happened to me before and i wouldn't b surprised if it happens again...so what happens to all the love and respect and moments of happiness n joy?? is it all a waste ... u become a strong shoulder to cry on but once u need a shoulder there seems to b a dirth of it.. sometimes i really don't know.... all i can say is that there r friends for life...this true as even if i haven't spoken to some of them i know deep inside something which keeps us alive and some with whom u have the hope will be part of your inner circle...i am just hoping it doesn't shrink anymore